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Educating Emily 2

The Clergy Daughter’s schools were charitably funded making it possible for Miriam and Emily to attend. There they would have received a top education for the time, in some ways on a par with today’s standards. In a letter to the newspaper in 1860’s the committee of the school made an appeal to the public to support the school. They bandied around the terms Christian sympathy and public benevolence to appeal to peoples better nature encouraging donations. They put forward the fact that some of the girls attending had lost at least one if not both parents, such was the case of Emily and her sister.

Earlsfort Terrace, Dublin, where Emily attended school in the 1870's and 80's.

Earlsfort Terrace, Dublin, where Emily attended school in the 1870’s and 80’s.

Both the Rev Burke and his wife died in 1883, leaving their four children without a guardian or much financial means. The charitable organisation of the Clergy Daughter’s School would have offered the girls an education now that they were alone in the world and had to provide for themselves in those times. The boys would have attended the male equivalent.

The annual report of 1883 of the Clergy Daughter’s School, the time Emily and her sister Miriam where pupils there stated:

10 pupils were admitted, three of which were orphans. In the course of the past year eight pupils left the school, and eight were elected to fill their places. One of those at present on the books thirty one in number or has neither father nor mother; three have lost their mothers, and four have experienced the heavier affliction of being deprived of their fathers, having lost withe them their chief means of support. In no case except two at present in the school, does the proportion of income to each member of the family reach £30 per annum.

It might be interesting to mention, as evidence of the utility of the Irish Clergy Daughters’ School, that many of those who have received their education within its walls have subsequently supported themselves by teaching others. From a tabular statement, recently drawn up, it appears that, within the last fourteen or fifteen years, eleven obtained appointments as governesses in various families, and five others performed the important duties of the same office towards their younger brothers and sisters, on their return home.

The Burke children received a great education at these schools, enabling them all to lay down the foundations for a self-sufficient life. Richard trained as a bank clerk, and secured a position The Bank of Ireland in Clonmel, Co. Tipperary. Her other brother John Jasper emigrated to Australia as did her sister Miriam. Emily’s education at the Clergy Daughters’ School would certainly have laid down the foundation for her nursing career.

Sources
Dublin Evening Mail 30 March 1863

Educating Emily

Emily attended the Clergy Daughter’s School on Earlsfort Terrace, Dublin. She may have began her education there when she was ten years old, the entrance age.

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Clergy Daughter’s School

Established in 1843 and incorporated by scheme of the Education Endowments Commissioners, 1894 the school was situated on Earlsfort Terrace, Dublin and shared premises with Alexandra College. Its object was to assist the clergymen and families of clergymen with limited means in the education of their children. The School catered for girls aged ten to eighteen whose fathers were Church of Ireland clergymen. The school closed in 1969. The site in Earlsfort Terrace was sold and the funds used to support boarding at Alexandra College and elsewhere.

 Sources
Dublin Evening Packet and Correspondent14 July 1853
Clergy Daughter’s School Reports 1868 – 1886, courtesy of Church of Ireland RCB Library, Dublin

 

Goodbye to Richard

The following obituary appeared in The Clonmel Chronical, Tipperary and Waterford advertiser. in the evening of Saturday June 30 1888:

The funeral of Mr R. M. Burke

On Thursday morning last the remains of Mr Richard McArthur Burke, who for the last five years has been connected with the Bank of Ireland at Clonmel, were removed from his residence at Queen Street for interment at Marifield. The great esteem, which he gained among us, as well as the deep retreat felt at his decease, were fully exemplified in the large number of sympathising friends attending the funeral, amongst whom were several members of the Masonic Order in this town, each wearing the usual symbol of morning. On the coffin and around the hearse were placed a profession of beautiful flowers in wreaths and crosses, most kindly sent by the following amongst others: – Mrs Murphy of Prior Park; the Rev Cannon Warren and Mrs Warren, Mrs R Malcomson, Mrs and Miss Bradley, Mr and Mrs Phelan, Mr B Fayle, Merlin,; Miss Davis, Ashburne; Miss Greham, Mr Arthur Malcoson, Mrs and Miss Oughton, Mrs Pelisser, Rev A H Delap, Rev. Ep Wheatley, Mrs Clancey, Mr Triphook.

At the close of the burial service and before the body was lowered into the grave, the Rev. Mr Whetley delivered a short and touching address to this assembled around, referring to the spirit of perfect trustfulness in his Savior, which had sustained their young departed friend through a severe illness.

Masonic apron used for ceremonies such as funerals of members

Masonic apron used for ceremonies such as funerals of members

Emily’s brother Richard was only 23 years old when he passed away. He died from a painful disease, or natural causes, followed his parents by only five years. At the time of his death there was another family tragedy unfolding over the water in the UK, which could not have helped his health. This was one of the awful events that plagued the Burkes for a full decade.

Emily and her remaining siblings it appears did not attend the funeral. At the time it was not uncommon at the time for female members of the family of the deceased not to attended funerals. Practical purposes may have prevented them too, as it was possible that Emily, Miriam and John Jasper were living a long distance away and could not travel to Tipperary that easily. There was also a tradition that the Freemason’s, of which Ricard was a member took over pageantry of the funeral as suggested in the obituary.

women of the ‘upper classes’ were not expected to attend funerals in the 19th Century.   Why, you might ask?   Apparently ‘for fear they would be unable to control their emotions’.
I got this piece of interesting information from ‘The Unquiet Grave‘, The Development of Kerry’s Burial Grounds through the Ages. To read more from Kay Caball’s account of 19th Century funerals:http://mykerryancestors.com/women-and-funerals/

In any County or Town where there is a Masonic Committee, permission for a Masonic funeral must be obtained either from the General Committee or from the Sub-Committee of the district in which the deceased resided and each Brother attending must be clothed as directed by the foregoing rules.

Richard Burke's Headstone. Retrieved from: http://www.clonmelgraveyards.com

Richard Burke’s Headstone.
Retrieved from:
http://www.clonmelgraveyards.com

In Loving Memory of Richard McArthur Burke, Son of The late Rev.rd William Burke Vicar of Castlejordan, Born May 6th 1865, Died June 26th 1888. Thou Will Keep Him In Peace Whose Mind Is Slayed On Thee. Isaiah.26.III.

 

Sources
From the Clonmel Chronical, Tipperary and Waterford advertiser. Saturday Evening, June 30 1888. Page 3.
Funerals:-
The Ceremony observed at Funerals of Freemasons, according to Ancient Custom: with the Service used on those occasions. Sentimental and Masonic Magazine June, 1794 p. 521 Vol. 5 p.
http://www.clonmelgraveyards.com by Eamonn Crowley
309http://mykerryancestors.com/women-and-funerals/retrieved 21/08/2014
Thanks to Rebecca Hayes, Archivist and the Freemasons Dublin for providing articles and photo of masons’ apron